Dear Prudence, After a decade in a tough marriage, I’m a recently divorced man.
Be prepared for meeting the ex When two people have children together, they nearly always have to remain in each other’s lives.
So bear in mind that your date’s ex-wife will be in the picture while you are dating him.
They may need to speak often about their children and arrangements for care.
Instead you found that by nature you’re less interested in variety than in harmony.
You found someone you really like, and even though apparently you have never made declarations about the future or fidelity, you feel you would be cheating if you started exploring how compatible you are with this new woman who’s caught your eye.